Well, you had three months and didn't do anything about it. I need someone experienced. You're in the wrong here. I envisioned what things would be like if he felt the same as I did. But, continuously, I was made a fool of. Don't involve other friends and family No inviting each other to family events and no showing up for group hang-outs together—that's what couples do.
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Don't use it as an emotional crutch A friends with benefits equation should never be used to plug an emotional void. Sounds like a perfect solution, provided things go as planned. You invited this situation. Your chick handled it herself. Too bad word travels fast. Yes your friend went back on what he said but you simply don't have a right to tell him he can't go for her, especially if you didn't have the balls to do so yourself. Clearly this is not going to be a one-time thing.